Loss and Recovery — healing begins here
    40+ Years Helping People Heal After Life's Greatest Losses:
    Death • Divorce • Career Loss • Financial Loss • Identity Crisis • Health Challenges • Major Life Transitions

    When Life Breaks You,
    You Can Still Become Whole Again.

    Compassionate coaching for life after loss
    Dr. Neil helps individuals, families, churches, and organizations navigate grief, major life transitions, and the emotional impact of loss through personalized coaching, workshops, and organizational support.

    Don't navigate loss alone. Schedule a confidential, no-obligation Discovery Call and take the first step toward healing.
    ☀️Grief & Bereavement
    🎉Joy Restored
    ❤️Divorce & Separation
    🌿Wholeness Rediscovered
    🧭Identity & Purpose Loss
    🌟Purpose & Identity Found
    🏠Career & Financial Loss
    📈Abundance & New Beginnings
    🌿Life Transitions
    🦋Transformation & Growth
    🏛Organizational Loss
    🏆Resilience & Renewal
    ☀️Grief & Bereavement
    🎉Joy Restored
    ❤️Divorce & Separation
    🌿Wholeness Rediscovered
    🧭Identity & Purpose Loss
    🌟Purpose & Identity Found
    🏠Career & Financial Loss
    📈Abundance & New Beginnings
    🌿Life Transitions
    🦋Transformation & Growth
    🏛Organizational Loss
    🏆Resilience & Renewal
    You Are Not Alone

    We See You.
    Exactly Where You Are.

    Perhaps you are carrying a weight so heavy that some mornings it is difficult to rise. A death. A divorce. The loss of a career you built for decades. An identity that no longer fits. The silence of an empty nest. A faith that has gone quiet.

    Whatever form your loss has taken, one thing is certain: your story is not over. Loss wears many faces. No matter which one you're carrying, healing is possible.

    Grief & Bereavement — Learning to carry love in a new way.
    Divorce & Separation — Rebuilding a life that is entirely, beautifully yours.
    Identity & Purpose Loss — Rediscovering who you were always meant to be.
    Career & Financial Loss — Finding your footing on new and solid ground.
    Life Transitions — New seasons deserve new roots.
    Organizational Loss — Teams and institutions navigating change with grace.
    Begin Your Healing Journey
    "

    "Even in the darkest valley, the path forward exists."

    — Dr. Clive E. Neil
    "

    "You may have lost part of your story…
    but your future is still waiting for you."

    — Dr. Clive E. Neil
    40+
    Years of Service
    3
    Published Books
    500+
    Lives Touched
    The Butterfly Effect Method

    Small Shifts.
    Profound Transformation.

    Dr. Neil's transformational framework guides you from the depths of loss into empowered, purpose-driven living.

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    Awareness
    2
    Healing
    3
    Identity
    4
    Purpose
    5
    Transform
    6
    Living
    01
    ☀️

    Awareness

    Gently acknowledging where you are — naming the grief without judgment.

    02
    🌿

    Healing

    Moving through grief rather than around it, with compassionate guidance.

    03
    🙌

    Identity Rediscovery

    Using the Enneagram to uncover who you truly are beneath the losses.

    04
    🧭

    Purpose Alignment

    Discovering the unique calling your loss has been preparing you for.

    05
    🦋

    Transformation

    The chrysalis moment — everything becomes the foundation of who you're becoming.

    06

    Empowered Living

    Stepping fully into your renewed life with clarity, confidence, and hope.

    Success Stories

    They Found
    Their Way Through

    "

    After losing my husband of 34 years, I didn't know who I was anymore. Dr. Neil helped me discover a version of myself I had never met. I am living again.

    "
    Margaret T.
    Margaret T.
    Grief & Identity Recovery
    Retired Teacher
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    The Enneagram work we did completely changed how I view my career transition. What felt like a failure became the foundation for my true calling.

    "
    James D.
    James D.
    Career Transition
    Former Executive
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    Dr. Neil has a profound gift for holding space for deep pain while gently guiding you toward hope. I am forever grateful for his coaching.

    "
    Sarah W.
    Sarah W.
    Divorce Recovery
    Small Business Owner
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    Dr. Neil's approach to organizational grief was exactly what our leadership team needed during the restructuring. He helped us maintain our culture while navigating difficult changes.

    "
    David L.
    David L.
    Organizational Loss
    CEO, Tech Solutions
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    The family sessions brought a level of peace to our home that I didn't think was possible after the loss of our patriarch. We are communicating better than ever.

    "
    The Roberts Family
    The Roberts Family
    Family Restoration
    Grief Support
    "

    I was skeptical about coaching at first, but Dr. Neil's wisdom and the Enneagram insights provided a clarity I've been searching for for years.

    "
    Elena R.
    Elena R.
    Identity Rediscovery
    Creative Director
    "

    Dr. Neil's guidance was a lighthouse in my storm. I found peace I didn't think possible after my transition.

    "
    Robert K.
    Robert K.
    Individual Coaching
    Professional
    "

    Our congregation is better equipped to serve those in pain thanks to the workshops and training sessions.

    "
    Pastor Sarah G.
    Pastor Sarah G.
    Church Consulting
    Senior Pastor
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    The Enneagram insights were life-changing for our team's morale and productivity during restructuring.

    "
    Mark S.
    Mark S.
    Organizational Support
    HR Director
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    "Your story is not over. It is just waiting for its next chapter."

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